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				<P><B><FONT SIZE="+1" COLOR="#003399">Subud-upmanship</FONT></B></P> ਍ऀऀऀऀ㰀倀㸀㰀䘀伀一吀 䌀伀䰀伀刀㴀∀⌀　　㌀㌀㤀㤀∀㸀戀礀 匀愀栀氀愀渀 䐀椀瘀攀爀㰀⼀䘀伀一吀㸀㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
				<P><FONT SIZE="-1"><I>(Note: The opinions expressed in any Subud Vision editorial are the author's and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the other Subud Vision editors)</I></FONT></P>਍ऀऀऀऀ㰀倀㸀吀栀攀 漀琀栀攀爀 搀愀礀Ⰰ 䤀 眀愀猀 猀甀爀瀀爀椀猀攀搀 琀漀 挀漀洀攀 愀挀爀漀猀猀 愀 爀攀昀攀爀攀渀挀攀 漀渀 愀 匀甀戀甀搀 洀攀洀戀攀爀ᤀ猠 眀攀戀 猀椀琀攀 琀漀 猀漀洀攀琀栀椀渀最 䤀 眀爀漀琀攀 渀攀愀爀氀礀 昀椀瘀攀 礀攀愀爀猀 愀最漀⸀  吀栀椀猀 洀攀洀戀攀爀 搀椀搀渀ᤀ琠 琀栀椀渀欀 洀甀挀栀 漀昀 眀栀愀琀 䤀 栀愀搀 眀爀椀琀琀攀渀⸀ 䄀瀀瀀愀爀攀渀琀氀礀 栀攀 昀漀甀渀搀 椀琀 猀漀 琀攀搀椀漀甀猀 栀攀 挀漀甀氀搀 栀愀爀搀氀礀 戀爀椀渀最 栀椀洀猀攀氀昀 琀漀 爀攀愀搀 洀漀爀攀 琀栀愀渀 愀 昀攀眀 猀攀渀琀攀渀挀攀猀⸀ 䄀渀搀 礀攀琀Ⰰ 栀攀 栀愀搀 最愀甀最攀搀 攀渀漀甀最栀 昀爀漀洀 栀椀猀 戀爀椀攀昀 搀椀瀀 椀渀琀漀 洀礀 ㌀　ⴀ瀀愀最攀 琀爀攀愀琀椀猀攀 琀漀 愀挀挀甀猀攀 洀攀 漀昀 戀攀椀渀最 ᰀ漠渀 愀 最椀最愀渀琀椀挀 攀最漀ⴀ琀爀椀瀀ᴀ⸠ 嘀攀爀礀 猀琀爀愀渀最攀Ⰰ 猀椀渀挀攀 琀栀攀 洀愀椀渀 琀栀爀甀猀琀 漀昀 洀礀 愀爀最甀洀攀渀琀 眀愀猀 愀戀漀甀琀 琀栀攀 渀攀攀搀 琀漀 洀漀瘀攀 搀攀挀椀猀椀漀渀ⴀ洀愀欀椀渀最 漀甀琀 漀昀 琀栀攀 栀愀渀搀猀 漀昀 愀 洀椀渀漀爀椀琀礀Ⰰ 挀漀猀礀 挀氀椀焀甀攀 漀昀 匀甀戀甀搀 洀攀攀琀椀渀最 攀渀琀栀甀猀椀愀猀琀猀 愀渀搀 瀀氀愀挀攀 椀琀 戀愀挀欀 椀渀琀漀 琀栀攀 栀愀渀搀猀 漀昀 琀栀攀 洀攀洀戀攀爀猀栀椀瀀 愀猀 愀 眀栀漀氀攀⸀ 䠀愀爀搀氀礀 愀 猀甀戀樀攀挀琀 漀渀攀 眀漀甀氀搀 攀砀瀀攀挀琀 愀 爀愀渀欀 攀最漀琀椀猀琀 琀漀 戀攀 挀漀渀挀攀爀渀攀搀 愀戀漀甀琀⸀㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
਍㰀倀㸀䤀琀 漀挀挀甀爀爀攀搀 琀漀 洀攀 琀栀愀琀 琀栀攀爀攀 椀猀 愀 氀漀琀 漀昀 琀栀椀猀 猀漀爀琀 漀昀 愀挀挀甀猀愀琀椀漀渀 椀渀 匀甀戀甀搀Ⰰ 愀渀搀 椀琀 瀀甀琀 洀攀 椀渀 洀椀渀搀 漀昀 琀栀攀 䔀渀最氀椀猀栀 栀甀洀漀甀爀椀猀琀Ⰰ 匀琀攀瀀栀攀渀 倀漀琀琀攀爀⸀ 䐀甀爀椀渀最 琀栀攀 ㄀㤀㐀　ᤀ猠Ⰰ 倀漀琀琀攀爀 眀爀漀琀攀 愀 猀攀爀椀攀猀 漀昀 ᰀ椠渀猀琀爀甀挀琀椀漀渀 洀愀渀甀愀氀猀ᴀ†漀渀 琀栀攀 猀甀戀樀攀挀琀 漀昀 ᰀ漠渀攀ⴀ甀瀀洀愀渀猀栀椀瀀ᴀ⸠  ഀഀ
Somebody who wishes to be “one-up” on their fellow man must learn a series of tactics, which Potter refers to as ”ploys”, designed to make themselves appear to be, in comparison with others, the cleverest person, the best educated person, the wealthiest person, the most athletic person, and so on. ਍䈀礀 甀猀椀渀最 倀漀琀琀攀爀ᤀ猠 瀀氀漀礀猀Ⰰ 猀漀洀攀漀渀攀 眀栀漀 栀愀搀 渀攀瘀攀爀 瀀氀愀礀攀搀 琀攀渀渀椀猀 椀渀 琀栀攀椀爀 氀椀昀攀 挀漀甀氀搀 挀漀渀瘀椀渀挀攀 琀栀攀 氀椀猀琀攀渀攀爀 琀栀愀琀 琀栀攀礀 眀攀爀攀 漀渀挀攀 猀攀氀攀挀琀攀搀 琀漀 瀀氀愀礀 愀琀 圀椀洀戀氀攀搀漀渀㬀 漀爀 猀漀洀攀漀渀攀 眀椀琀栀 愀 昀攀愀爀 漀昀 栀攀椀最栀琀猀 挀漀甀氀搀 挀漀渀瘀椀渀挀攀 漀琀栀攀爀猀 琀栀愀琀 琀栀攀礀 眀攀爀攀 椀渀 昀愀挀琀 愀 爀攀琀椀爀攀搀Ⰰ 攀砀瀀攀爀琀 洀漀甀渀琀愀椀渀 挀氀椀洀戀攀爀⸀ 㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
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਍㰀吀䐀 嘀䄀䰀䤀䜀一㴀∀琀漀瀀∀ 䌀䰀䄀匀匀㴀∀挀漀渀琀攀渀琀∀ 圀䤀䐀吀䠀㴀∀㌀─∀㸀 ഀഀ
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<P>A typical ploy would work like this: Suppose you wanted to sound impressive at a literary gathering – all you had to do was memorise some wordy, philosophical passages from an obscure book, then quote these passages loudly in reply to any point made, with the aim of making the speaker’s literary understanding seem shallow by comparison to your own. Nobody would have the slightest idea what you were talking about, but would be sufficiently impressed by your confidence to mark you down as a real expert.</P>਍㰀倀㸀倀漀琀琀攀爀ᤀ猠 栀甀洀漀甀爀 眀漀爀欀猀 琀栀爀漀甀最栀 愀 挀漀洀戀椀渀愀琀椀漀渀 漀昀 栀椀猀 椀渀瘀攀渀琀椀瘀攀 椀洀愀最椀渀愀琀椀漀渀Ⰰ 漀甀琀爀愀最攀漀甀猀 攀砀愀最最攀爀愀琀椀漀渀Ⰰ 琀漀琀愀氀 椀洀瀀氀愀甀猀椀戀椀氀椀琀礀Ⰰ 愀渀搀 琀栀愀琀 攀猀猀攀渀琀椀愀氀 椀渀最爀攀搀椀攀渀琀 漀昀 愀氀氀 栀甀洀漀甀爀Ⰰ 愀 挀攀爀琀愀椀渀 挀氀漀猀攀渀攀猀猀 琀漀 琀栀攀 琀爀甀琀栀Ⰰ 琀栀攀 琀爀甀琀栀 椀渀 琀栀椀猀 挀愀猀攀 戀攀椀渀最 琀栀攀 挀栀愀爀愀挀琀攀爀 漀昀 琀栀攀 ㄀㤀㐀　ᤀ猠 䔀渀最氀椀猀栀Ⰰ 愀猀 椀渀昀氀甀攀渀挀攀搀 戀礀 琀栀攀椀爀 挀氀愀猀猀 猀礀猀琀攀洀 漀昀 琀栀攀 琀椀洀攀Ⰰ 眀椀琀栀 椀琀猀 瘀攀爀礀 愀瀀瀀愀爀攀渀琀 搀椀猀琀椀渀挀琀椀漀渀猀 漀昀 洀漀渀攀礀Ⰰ 攀搀甀挀愀琀椀漀渀Ⰰ 挀甀氀琀甀爀攀 愀渀搀 愀挀挀攀渀琀猀 漀昀 猀瀀攀攀挀栀⸀㰀⼀倀㸀 ഀഀ
<P>Subud, also, has cultivated a one-upmanship, but, unlike the characters in Potter’s books, who are funny because they practise their one-upmanship maliciously in full knowledge of what they are doing, Subud members’ one-upmanship is not at all funny, since the practice has become so insidious that members are hardly aware they are engaging in it.</P>਍㰀倀㸀匀甀戀甀搀 栀愀猀 渀漀 栀椀攀爀愀爀挀栀礀 漀昀 挀氀愀猀猀 漀爀 眀攀愀氀琀栀⸀ 䤀渀猀琀攀愀搀 椀琀 栀愀猀 愀渀 椀洀瀀氀椀攀搀 猀瀀椀爀椀琀甀愀氀 栀椀攀爀愀爀挀栀礀⸀ 䠀漀眀攀瘀攀爀Ⰰ 眀栀攀爀攀愀猀 愀 瀀攀爀猀漀渀ᤀ猠 戀愀挀欀最爀漀甀渀搀 椀渀 琀攀爀洀猀 漀昀 挀氀愀猀猀 漀爀 眀攀愀氀琀栀 愀爀攀 搀椀昀昀椀挀甀氀琀 琀漀 搀椀猀最甀椀猀攀Ⰰ 愀 瀀攀爀猀漀渀ᤀ猠 猀瀀椀爀椀琀甀愀氀 猀琀愀渀搀椀渀最 椀猀 愀氀洀漀猀琀 椀洀瀀漀猀猀椀戀氀攀 琀漀 愀猀猀攀猀猀⸀ 圀攀 欀渀漀眀 眀攀 愀爀攀 瀀爀漀戀愀戀氀礀 愀氀氀 漀渀 搀椀昀昀攀爀攀渀琀 氀攀瘀攀氀猀Ⰰ 戀甀琀 眀栀漀 椀猀 漀渀 瀀爀攀挀椀猀攀氀礀 眀栀愀琀 氀攀瘀攀氀 爀攀氀愀琀椀瘀攀 琀漀 愀渀礀漀渀攀 攀氀猀攀Ⰰ 渀漀 漀渀攀 眀漀甀氀搀 戀攀 愀戀氀攀 琀漀 猀愀礀⸀ 吀栀椀猀 洀愀欀攀猀 昀漀爀 昀攀爀琀椀氀攀 最爀漀甀渀搀 漀渀 眀栀椀挀栀 琀栀攀 猀瀀椀爀椀琀甀愀氀 ᰀ漠渀攀ⴀ甀瀀瀀攀爀ᴀ†挀愀渀 瀀爀愀挀琀椀挀攀 琀栀攀椀爀 挀爀愀昀琀㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
਍㰀倀㸀䄀挀挀漀爀搀椀渀最氀礀 䤀 瀀爀攀猀攀渀琀 昀漀爀 礀漀甀爀 攀搀椀昀椀挀愀琀椀漀渀Ⰰ 椀渀 琀栀攀 猀琀礀氀攀 漀昀 倀漀琀琀攀爀Ⰰ 愀 挀愀琀愀氀漀最甀攀 漀昀 匀甀戀甀搀 猀瀀椀爀椀琀甀愀氀ⴀ漀渀攀ⴀ甀瀀洀愀渀猀栀椀瀀 瀀氀漀礀猀Ⰰ 椀渀 琀栀攀 栀漀瀀攀 琀栀愀琀 琀栀攀猀攀 瀀氀漀礀猀Ⰰ 眀栀椀挀栀 愀氀氀 愀挀琀 猀漀 愀猀 琀漀 搀攀愀搀攀渀 愀渀礀 瀀漀猀猀椀戀椀氀椀琀礀 漀昀 瀀爀漀瀀攀爀 搀攀戀愀琀攀 愀渀搀 搀礀渀愀洀椀挀 瀀爀漀最爀攀猀猀 椀渀 匀甀戀甀搀Ⰰ 挀愀渀 椀渀 昀甀琀甀爀攀 戀攀 爀攀挀漀最渀椀稀攀搀 愀渀搀 猀琀漀瀀瀀攀搀 搀攀愀搀 椀渀 琀栀攀椀爀 琀爀愀挀欀猀⸀ 㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
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<P><B>The “Time on your hands” ploy</B><P>਍ഀഀ
<P>This ploy is useful when you need to quickly escape from a discussion that is getting uncomfortably near the truth. Remark impatiently that the speaker has “too much time on their hands” and leave the room immediately, thereby implying that you are too busy with important matters to be concerned about some idler who is only raising issues because they have nothing better to occupy themselves with.਍㰀⼀倀㸀ഀഀ
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